Monday, 11 July 2016

A HELPING HAND

Dear friends, there is a well known saying-OUR BODY IS THE ABODE OF GOD. Learned sages throughout the ages have sought answers to the existential question embedded deep within human psyche.

How profoundly deep and loving is God’s hand, seen within and without. Who can deny acknowledging his presence all around us?

MINOR CHIP IN THE ARMOUR
This abode of God, our own bodies, dear friends sometimes causes a lot of distress. The love and care that God shows us in the subtle play of human emotions, becomes a hindrance. We yearn to love; we yearn to be loved. We yearn to have love and joy in our lives. We yearn to hold our deepest expression of love, our kids, in our arms. Yet something pulls us back. Something rises deep within us and we feel so helpless. Unable to bring forth our desires upfront, we suffer in painful silence.



Dear friends, our immediate surroundings, our cultural legacies mould our psyche. Small fears and small inhibitions, keep on piling up. Slowly they attain gigantic proportions. And we feel so helpless and defenceless against those torrid emotions that pour forth.
What is it that pulls and drags us back into this chasm of gloom? Does it even have a scientific name? Can we ever go and get help for our miseries? Is there anyone who would listen to our woes with sympathy?
LIGHT AT THE END OF THE TUNNEL
Dear friends, you are not the only one who is suffering in silence. There are so many others like you, who having suffered for so long, decided to act. You too can do it. You too can overpower all your negative emotions.
  • VAGINISMUS
Yes, my dear friends, our problem has a scientific name. It identifies our problem in a very broad generalised manner. It covers the physical aspect in a tight nutshell. Vaginismus is defined as recurrent or persistent involuntary spasm of the musculature of the outer third of the vagina, which interferes with coitus and causes distress and interpersonal difficulty.
  • INCOMPLETE PICTURE
But the human body is not all brick and mortar, like the houses that we build. All our problems cannot be only physical in nature. A very big chunk of our problems have a deep-rooted psychological aspect too. This leads to a gradual build-up of pain, anger and resentment between a couple. A family without kids is like a barren theatre of life.

WHO WILL UNDERSTAND THAT?
The trained counsellors are there to listen to all your problems. Not in a perfunctory manner. Not unsympathetically. Not judgementally. They are there as your friend in need.
They don’t censure you. They don’t chide you. They don’t ridicule you. They don’t laugh at you.





  • IS THERE REALLY A WAY OUT?
Yes, my dear friend, there indeed is a way out of our miseries. We have to come forward to seek help from the counsellors. All our fears and inhibitions have a base and origin in our own past. We have to open up and discuss all our negative emotions, truthfully with the counsellors. These trained counsellors always know how to help us out.
  • ARE THE EMOTIONAL AND PHYSICAL STATE INTERLINKED?
In order to complete our family and have children, physical intimacy cannot be avoided. That is the way God and Nature, has designed and programmed our survival. When the doctor finds no physical defects in our reproductive organs, then the only reason one is unable to conceive, lies in our mental and emotional state of mind. It is for this very reason, we need to open up and discuss all our psychological issues with the counsellors.
  • DOES IT LEAD TO A POSITIVE OUTCOME?
A family is a union of two individuals. Here collective action culminates in a state of harmony. Likewise the couples have to fight the psychological issues jointly. It is very imperative that the man understands the emotional problem of the women , so that the counsellor can work out the best solution for them.
Whatever is the diagnosis given; whatever is the medication/therapy prescribed: a sensitive sympathetic supportive partner is the key-solution to the mental blockage faced by the women.
  • WHERE TO GO FOR HELP?
It is here, at KJIVF CENTER, where you will get all the help and support that you need.
The very efficient and highly trained counsellors are not robots or magician .They are human beings like you and me. With their personal touch and motivation, they are forever eager and ready to help you out. So friends reach out to them with all your problems, without doubt or fear crippling you.


Tuesday, 19 April 2016

SERVICE WITH A SMILE

Dear Friends, your quest for that ultimate soul-satisfying journey has brought you absolutely at the right place. The centre spear-headed by the renowned ‘Infertility Expert’..Dr Kuldeep Jain..showcase the right spirit and attitude towards serving the patients.

At KJIVF Centre (East Delhi) , you my dear friends come first. Your desires and decisions are given importance, to the extent that nothing, my dear friends, nothing is done without your explicit consent.
At each of these centres, you my dear friends , are guided through each of the steps involved. Your desires and decisions are always given top priority. There are no hidden costs involved. There are no third parties Involved. The doctor and you as a family, are the joint decision makers .Thus ensuring confidentiality , with zero chance of any error , your doubts and questions, are all dealt faithfully.






YOUR SUCCESSFUL JUDGEMENT
The motivation to face all the challenges of raising a family of your own starts from the moment when you step inside the KJIVF CENTRE. The first bold step that you have taken has landed you at precisely that place which would lead to the fulfilment of your heart’s desire. Look around the centres. Talk to the Doctor Himself. Never hesitate to clear your doubts. Never hesitate to see and judge for yourself the attitude, the zeal, the competence and the loving atmosphere which percolates all around you.


As a patient , you are free to ask and enquire about all the previous successful IVF induced pregnancies. If you see other patients waiting in the OPD, go and approach them. Talk to them. Find out what brought them to the Centre in the first place and what impels them to visit the Centre again and again.









VINDICATING YOUR JUDGEMENT
So you have gone about enquiring about the IVF program being run at KJIVF CENTRE (EAST DELHI). Now how are you going to decide to take that final plunge? There are certain factors that you must keep in mind. The first and foremost is the ‘cost factor’. The centre must be able to give you a clear-cut picture of the total cost involved with additional break-ups added at each stage of the procedure.
Here, in this place, you will find no hesitancy from the staff to give you detailed cost-sheet involved. This is before you even decide to register here